Recently I stumbled upon a catchy saying: “Failing to plan is planning to fail”. Do you agree? And I would like to ask you how is it going with your New Year resolutions? If finding your Love is an important priority for you this year, this article is for you!
The beginning of the year is the time for us to look back, to think about what was working and be honest with yourself about what wasn’t. And think about what you really want: not what others are expecting of you, but you yourself. Are you living up to your own expectations? Are you accomplishing things that matter? And the most important question of all : are you truly happy? Give honest answers to yourself and set your priorities straight, then make changes if necessary.
As a customer support representative at Unona Online Dating service, my job is to motivate other people to live life in full. I strongly believe that being happy in personal life is one of the fundamentals of living happily in general. I meet the ladies every day and here is a question I get to ask them: How serious are you about finding your soulmate abroad? And when I hear the answer “Yes, very much so”, we can talk about how much they are willing to invest in their search – time, money and emotions. I want to make sure that they get the best chance in their quest, the quest which will likely change their lives forever.
Chances are you do want to find your Ukrainian bride this year, otherwise you would not be reading this article. So let’s take a cup of coffee and a few hours of your Saturday morning and let’s go over an action plan of making your resolution come true:
New Year's Resolution To Find Love:
1. I will say “Thank you” to my past relationships as they were good lessons for me. This year I will have a positive attitude because my love is just around the corner and I’m excited and say “thank you” in advance to the wonderful woman who is about to enter my life.
2. I will go over my profile to:
· update it with a unique, positive, playful and sincere information
· update my photos and seriously consider taking photos at a professional studio. I want to show me at my best and will post pictures of myself, my interests, my activities, my job. I will keep my family photos as “private” and only my friends will be able to see them.
· I will ask my friend to take a few short videos of myself and show myself at my very best.
When I am done, I will ask a female friend to review my profile. When she says that the profile shows my true self – smart, sincere, sexy and fun – I am good to go.
3. I will burn my “Perfect Woman” list. I will let go of my “type” and will date a wider range of women. Maybe I’ll date ladies who are a little older and not be concerned about hair color. I challenge the Universe to surprise me and know it will take care of me.
4. I will send smile and ecards to strangers – not just because I want to meet women in such a way, but also because I want to share my positive energy with others. I will read introductory letters and check profiles of the ladies who sound interesting.
5. I will pick 5 ladies and send them personalized messages. Then I will compare their replies – time of response, attention to details, inspiration – everything is important. I will narrow my choice to one or two and invite them to chat live. If we do not click, that’s OK too, as we both got a new friend but will not take each other’s time.
6. If while communicating with a lady I come across some unusual things, I will be willing to ask her directly about my concerns and give her the benefit of the doubt. But if I see signs of scammers, I will ask the manager for help or end the relationship and start a new one.
7. When I meet a lady I am truly interested in, I will keep in close touch as often as possible via live chat and telephone conversations, emails and text messages. I will surprise her with tiny signs of my attention.
8. I will plan to come to Ukraine in summer or in early autumn, as it is a mother land of my future Ukrainian wife. I will be hopeful knowing that I will make new friends. I will be warm, kind, positive, sincere, a great listener and will always be appreciative.
9. When I meet the right person, I will find the way for us to be happy together.
Now let me ask you: How serious are you? And you want to answer “Yes, very much so”, you are my man. Open your heart to a new relationship. Love and be loved in 2012!