This article was written by Yaroslava, Kiev and Elena, Vancouver.
"Words are made to woo women"
Many people might think that it is hard to successfully flirt on line. We have a good news – it’s easy. Flirting online while you’re corresponding with a potential partner can be very enjoyable and fun, and it will help you to start and develop a relationship in a natural and pleasant way. Flirting is a way to stand out from the first moment, and both you and your lady will love it immensely.
Fist of all determine your stage of seduction. There are basically 4 of them: initial contact (friendly), courting (personal), cyber-seduction (private), and real life seduction. Be mindful to keep your flirting appropriate to which stage you are at. It is like dancing the waltz: beautiful and graceful – you make a step forward, she makes a step back, she makes a step forward, you step back. The difference with flirting is that you get closer and closer with every step.
- Make your initial contact friendly and respectful, but do not reveal too much of personal details, this is yet to come.
- Use free smiles. It is an easy feature available on our website. When you find a profile of a lady you like, you could just click “Send a Smile” and this lady will receive a notification that you are interested in her. If she does not reply – no harm done, as sending smiles is free. But if she replies – you have a nice romantic connection.
- Use compliments. You like them yourself, don’t you? And tUkrainian ladies will absolutely love them. Try to find something special in the women you want to start flirting with. Anything – her charming eyes, her open smile, her long hair... Try to write something like this: “This smile of yours made me think this smile I want to see all my life”, or: “I have not seen such perfect hair since the time I was a child and played with mermaids on the shore”. Although it sounds unreal, but it is original and romantic. Try to make your compliments deeper that just about her looks.
- Be respectful. Every lady likes to be well. If you doubt that a joke might sound offensive, just skip it. Humor can sound quite different in different cultures.
- Be confident and positive. Remember no one likes big talkers and people who complain all the time. Discussions in which you bare your soul could scare her away when you just start her relationship.
- Courting is personal. Be resourceful and attentive to details. But go one step at a time, being careful not to overload a lady with hundreds of questions – this is not a job interview.
- Be observant. You will want to watch her photos and read her profile and comments to the photos very attentively. You will definitely find something unique and interesting with every photo or essay. You know that we have videos on our site as well. That is a great opportunity to be flirty!!! Ask her why she chose this place and clothes for her video shoot? Confess to her sincerely that your greatest wish when you watch her video is to be there with her. Jump into the screen and here you are –a lovely couple!
- Research. You see the lady’s Zodiac sign in her profile, you could find out about your compatibility and impress her even more. You can easily find out online the weather at her city and ask her what she has been doing during these last few hot days.
- Ask open-ended questions instead of yes/no questions. It will motivate her to open her thoughts to you.
- Use smile icons in your messages, they are funny and make you words more alive and realistic ;-)
- Please do not ask ladies about the dimensions of their bodies, it does not sound polite in our culture. And you could keep the best part until your personal meeting.
- If it feels appropriate, talk about your family and children, and then ask her about hers. Tell about things you like to do together, drawing a vivid picture with your words, make her want to be a part of your life.
- If you are both ready, move your relationship to real-life mode with Live Chat or a conference call. Let her feel that you are real, and that you care about her.
- Make her feel special with a thoughtful gift you could pick at www.UkraineGiftDelivery.com We will make a digital picture of the delivery and can make a video of the delivery for you.
- If she does not reply for few days, cool down and then go over your last messages – was there anything she might found offensive? Do not keep hard feelings – contact her again. It is likely a small thing, a misunderstanding. Speak up, as she can not read your mind.
- Be funny. Using humor can be very sexy…But try to avoid silly jokes concerning her appearance, her family or friends, her traditions and country.
- Be honest. If you do not look like George Clooney, why say so? She will see you sooner or later and believe me, she prefers to fantasize about real you than about a person who pretends to look like some star.
- Be truthful about your intentions. If you are not looking for a long-term relationship, tell her about it. But if you are corresponding with the other ladies, keep it to yourself unless she asks you about it up front.
- Leave space for some mystery. Women like surprises…You do not have to tell everything right away. You could start an exciting story and then interrupt it on an exciting moment telling “To be continued”. I am sure the lady will check her computer or call us way more often than usual trying to know the next part of your exciting story. Do not be discouraged. If a woman stays indifferent to your attempts, maybe she is not the One. Or maybe she is too shy or she is not ready for flirting stage.
- Cyber-seduction is private, fun, and it can be amazing, but is certainly not required and might not be right for every relationship, before meeting in person. But if and when you both are ready for this stage, you could add each other to Friends folder and then change your setting so that only your friends could be able to contact you. This way you will not mislead other ladies and could focus on the pleasure of knowing each other.
- Test the waters with a romantic erotic story – You together walking on the beach of the ocean, You together walking in the forest and suddenly find a beautiful meadow… make her be a part of a fairy tale she will remember for all her life.
- At this stage you are both ready to talk about sex and sensuality. Remember that her senses might be different from yours. Listen attentively to how she describes acts of love or body parts and try to keep in the same space.
- Let her take a lead sometimes to make sure you are on the same pace. But keep the ball rolling, gradually closing the distance
- Do not assume that you know her tastes – ask her. Excellent communication is the main difference of great lovers from just lovers.
- For beautiful erotic stories where every word counts you might need a translator. But if her English is good, you might want to use a text Chat and then an audio Live Chat. Even though you might not understand all 100% of what you are saying, the most important thing here is the sound of your sexy voices.
- When you are ready, you could upgrade to a Live Video chat, once ordered you can use it for 24 hours… that is, up to a full 24 hours of continuous chat for no extra cost above the initial purchase price. Make sure to agree in advance on the time of the Live chats and do not get upset when a lady does not want to accept an invitation. She might be about to go to the shower and your invitation caught her by surprise. On video, she just cannot let you see her not in her very best.
- Enjoy cyber seduction but remember that its goal is to make you closer before your actual meeting. The news of you coming to meet her is the sexiest news she wants to hear.
The next stage following cyber-seduction is even more exciting as it implies meeting in real life. Please think carefully of whether you are ready for it – meeting your lady in flesh and blood with real hopes and expectations. And may your meeting exceed your boldest expectations.
Good luck and have fun!