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This article was written by Yaroslava, Kiev.
So you are here at last – registered on the dating site with hundreds of beautiful
Ukrainian women of all ages, types, and every woman has her own attractive qualities. You know why you are looking for a wife in Ukraine, but you are still possibly having doubts.
In spite that your closest friend is married for ten years to a girl from Ukraine and you have never been charmed with anyone’s household such as theirs. And your neighbor across the road has recently shared with his memories about his trip to Kiev and Odessa. He told you that he will have big changes in his life very soon. He met the love of his life, the one he needs and was waiting for all of his life there, in the beautiful picturesque country, so welcoming and warm.
Looking at profiles, videos and photos of smiling
Ukrainian girls, a question is forming in your mind: could one of these women be my Mrs. Right?
Well…let’s find this out.
First of all you need to determine what features you expect to see in your future spouse.
Make a list. Have you? Well done. Now mark the ones you think Ukrainian women possess. I will give you a clue which ones.
1. Attractive appearance
· It is essential for our women to take care of themselves. Manicure, pedicure, massage, exercises, hair do, and make up. One of the gentlemen who came to visit our girl laughed that she would not even take the garbage without make up on.
· How should I put this? Did you know that S (small) size of clothes in North America corresponds to the M (medium) size in Ukraine? Do not be surprised to see that Ukrainian women are about a size more petite than North American women.
2. Qualities of a good wife – delicious food, neat house and meeting me after work, economical and this can be continued…
· Every woman feels it is her duty to make the dinner ready for her husband return from work.
· Have you seen the personal cooking books of Ukrainian women? They collect unique recipes, practice them before the special occasion to impress their husbands with a delicious gourmet meal.
· A neat and tidy house: have you noticed how many commercials there are in Ukraine for cleaning and washing supplies? That is because a neat house and clean and ironed clothes are an absolute must. An unironed shirt of a husband of a son is unheard of.
3. Smart and intellectual, educated
· Any topic from political elections till recent series Desperate Housewives Ukrainian ladies can and are willing to discuss.
4. Traditional family values. Respect and care towards your parents, family, and friends
· In Ukraine still a few generation of a family live under one roof quite often. Families are very close and people spend a lot of time together. And if you can not see your mom, that is ok, she can call you few times during the day on your cell phone.
· There are lots of holidays in Ukraine – religious, Soviet, new Western ones. We celebrate all of them together with family and friends. In fact we do not need an excuse to visit a friend at 10.00 p.m. on a weekday if something really important happened. Or if we just missed them.
Believe it or not you will find most of the best qualities in Slavic women. If you are looking for a woman with the particular qualities I have mentioned, you are on the right way. Why?
It has been traditionally in our society, as I have mentioned in my previous article, for a woman to unite everything – home life and career, being educated and at the same time remaining attractive, taking care of our Slavic beauty. Our women are very active and energetic.
Most of them manage to have a job, to keep house and to raise children without men’s help (but it does not mean they do not appreciate it).
While doing some research on this article I have interviewed my mother’s husband, who is an Englishman, and the husband of my mother’s fellow-wives from post USSR countries.
They all agreed in one thing –Ukrainian women are appealing particularly because they still have old values as wives and mothers. Most men stated that their country-fellow women are career-minded, too independent and lost their feminine inside.
However, there are things you have to be prepared for. There are certain challenges that come with your dream of having loving and caring wife from Ukraine.
- First of all, language, of course. Many women still do not know English, being busy with everything mentioned, they simply hardly have time for taking lessons, sometimes it costs too much even if they can find time. So for the first time you will be communicating through translator. And when you wife will finally move to your house, English lessons will be essential.
- The second comes getting a visa to your country. Depending on the type of visa you need and your country the process might take from 2.5 months (the record for our K 1 Fiancee Visa support to USA) to 14 months (spousal visa to Canada)
- Lastly when you are finally settled in your country and happily married, you will need all your patience and support, all your love to make your beloved woman to get accustomed with her new life, new country. Everything from shopping to cleaning will be unusual for her, unknown. She will miss of course her relatives and friends from home, dreaming to visit them for first time as often as she can.
All this can be overcome with time. There is nothing really dramatic in this, all is temporary. You should remember about the difficulties as well as the privileges while thinking – is the Ukrainian woman can be my Mrs. Right?